I recently got a person who disagreed with my last post about finding lasting relationhips with strippers/dancers and i felt the answer i gave should be answered a little bit more in depth. Here is what that person said…

I disagree with your opinion that you can’t meet a life long partner at a strip club.My wife and I found each other at a strip club she was a dancer.

My answer:   while that does happen its very rare. most just want to keep the money comming and once it stops the guy is no longer apart of her “life”. at the same time u cant come into a strip club trying to stop a dancer from making money and start relationship

While my original post has been in my experience and also the case and opinions  of other dancers, I can only speak for myself right now.

It is true I am in a relationship and when Im working, I am solely there to work. Im not there 2 exchange numbers, meet outside the club ect ect.I am there to work enjoy the time i have with those that do spend on me and then go back to my life. The last thing i want while working is for A. a guy to not spend on me and b. only want to talk to me about what he can do for me/to me, how he wants me to be his girlfriend, pls can he have my number, cant we be friend w benefits ect ect. while yes i can blow smoke up your ass and say yes to everything you want until i get my money realistically its just not going to happen..and in the cash business or any business where there is trust and dealing with money, my word is everything while i could have fucked you out of your money its going to fuck my money in the future because you are going to label me a liar and tell any and every one.

So why even set yourself up for failure. when i can be honest and if you are not interested in buying and having fun in the club with me then i can get up and move on. at the end of the day i have 2 pimps who i pushed out and care about deeply that my money goes to. All that boyfriend stuff and talking a guy may be doing is wasting my time in a place where time is money…Im one of the coolest and realist chicks you will meet in a strip club I am there to work, have fun with the guys and go home.

So many of my guy friends i know have had their heart stomped on by a stripper because they were nice and spent money on them inside and outside the club and supposedly was in a relationship with them. The day they didnt make a club apparance, or stopped spending like they used to the girl was out their life and the was now some stranger. and here he comes talking to me as their friend like she said she liked me we loved each other, she wont answer my calls! and im honest no she didn’t like u or love you she loved ur money!

A strip club for strippers is a place of work..there may be 1 out the bunch that may find it a perk to score a relationship out the deal, but the other are there to work. Some are honest, some arent, Some area focused solely on the money no matter how or who they may hurt to get it, and some will dance for you and go out 2 ur car and suck and fuck u off for the same price of that lap dance…..thats just reality..

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