I have finally arrived in West Palm Beach Fl!!!

You can see me at T’s Lounge for the next three weeks!

More than likely my schedule will be from Tues-Sunday 8pm-4am

I can’t wait to see you there!!!

This question was posed to me yesterday on this site http://www.formspring.me/Jayceeluv feel free to check it out and ask me anything. This question was particular interesting to me so since it cannot be condensed to twitters 160 characters its a perfect question to answer here.

Do you find any satisfactionin being a woman that exploits herself?

Now Lets get into the definition of exploits

Exploit- use or manipulate to one’s advantage

Back in Late Dec 07 I sat in my roomates living room and made the decision to do porn.. to pack my bag take the trip w Jon Jon to cali, strip down for producers so they can see what i look like, and turn around and do a scene with Jon Jon b4 the trip was over. Mind you still totally clear of sound mind body and soul. No one pushed me No one sugar coated anything, i was not drunk, or high. knew full well this was forever as far as being out there and that did not matter. So no one manipulated me into anything and I used myself an my body for my advantage to make money and to continue make money..at the end of the day you have a choice and I chose to do this with no regrets.

Exploit- draw from; make good use of

I draw from myself on a daily basis, staying on my grind and hustle. I make good use of myself as a person, my mind to get what i need to get done. Speaking porn is a job yes i use my body for every scene i have been in to do a job that I like and enjoy.

Exploit- overwork: work excessively hard

I am a workaholic. Hell as a stripper I will stay in the club till it closes if i have not made my goal for the night. I know where i want to be as far as money and in life. I know what i want my little ones to have in life and I will work extremely hard to get that. I chose to be a stripper and be someone that does porn and as with any paying job you have to work hard to get what you want to get to where u want to be.

Exploit- feat: a notable achievement

I have no regrets. I love to dance I love to do porn. It takes a bold person to be able to do what I do as far as being a stripper but most importantly to do porn. I think its a great achievement to know I can choose my own schedule, be around my kids when most parents are fighting to be around their kids because of their work schedule. I think its incredible to be able to pay your bills, live comfortably and have a job that you enjoy. An as long as i meet my goals and expectations I have for myself and my family then thats all that matters.

So as far as your question, yes i take great satisfaction in what i do I love it. In this case exploiting myself is awesome!

I recently got a person who disagreed with my last post about finding lasting relationhips with strippers/dancers and i felt the answer i gave should be answered a little bit more in depth. Here is what that person said…

I disagree with your opinion that you can’t meet a life long partner at a strip club.My wife and I found each other at a strip club she was a dancer.

My answer:   while that does happen its very rare. most just want to keep the money comming and once it stops the guy is no longer apart of her “life”. at the same time u cant come into a strip club trying to stop a dancer from making money and start relationship

While my original post has been in my experience and also the case and opinions  of other dancers, I can only speak for myself right now.

It is true I am in a relationship and when Im working, I am solely there to work. Im not there 2 exchange numbers, meet outside the club ect ect.I am there to work enjoy the time i have with those that do spend on me and then go back to my life. The last thing i want while working is for A. a guy to not spend on me and b. only want to talk to me about what he can do for me/to me, how he wants me to be his girlfriend, pls can he have my number, cant we be friend w benefits ect ect. while yes i can blow smoke up your ass and say yes to everything you want until i get my money realistically its just not going to happen..and in the cash business or any business where there is trust and dealing with money, my word is everything while i could have fucked you out of your money its going to fuck my money in the future because you are going to label me a liar and tell any and every one.

So why even set yourself up for failure. when i can be honest and if you are not interested in buying and having fun in the club with me then i can get up and move on. at the end of the day i have 2 pimps who i pushed out and care about deeply that my money goes to. All that boyfriend stuff and talking a guy may be doing is wasting my time in a place where time is money…Im one of the coolest and realist chicks you will meet in a strip club I am there to work, have fun with the guys and go home.

So many of my guy friends i know have had their heart stomped on by a stripper because they were nice and spent money on them inside and outside the club and supposedly was in a relationship with them. The day they didnt make a club apparance, or stopped spending like they used to the girl was out their life and the was now some stranger. and here he comes talking to me as their friend like she said she liked me we loved each other, she wont answer my calls! and im honest no she didn’t like u or love you she loved ur money!

A strip club for strippers is a place of work..there may be 1 out the bunch that may find it a perk to score a relationship out the deal, but the other are there to work. Some are honest, some arent, Some area focused solely on the money no matter how or who they may hurt to get it, and some will dance for you and go out 2 ur car and suck and fuck u off for the same price of that lap dance…..thats just reality..