Guys in strip club looking for a date/real relationship…then get mad when their feelings get hurt…

For 1, When we are at the strip club, we are not there to converse, kick it, chill out, hang, whatever you want to call it…We are there to make m oney…its our job! We are there to be nice, cheerful, and sell the club and our talents to you guys so you guys can pay us the money that we then in most cases take home to pay bills, shop, whatever…

For whatever reasom guys seem to think the strip club is the perfect place to get a life long partner, girlfriend, best friend whatever and its just not the case…Every guy that walks in is a potential to give us money..just depends on whats his type, who he is looking for ect…

And thats the focus of the night. yeah you can come in trying to spit game…the only thing in my head and any money making girl at the club is what can u do for me? you spend money and hey we are happy why becuase thats a plus! you have given us the money and you are nice…now u can either keep giving money or if you are all out i need to move on and make some more money until you get some more…

And if you come in without money….some of us will approach you howver again any money making girl at the club will stick around to see if you are going to pay some money be it for time or dances….once thats not happening we are going to move on to the next one, or come back and hang for a few secs when its super slow.. again money is the forefront of this conversation…

And lets say money was spent, a good night was had, and numbesrs were exchanged…means nothing why? based on what you just spent in the club the number exchange is not for the start of a meaningful relationship, its still what can u do for me outside the club? can u take me shopping? can you spoil me? if i say my rent/bill is due when you try and call me will you up and pay for it? this especially applies to the married/girl in a relationship thats seeing what u possibly can do for her tha her man is not doing…it may not be just about cash in hand..it could be shopping fancy, going out on dates they are not used to doing..for the single girl this is the i want to see if you are still going to spend/take care of me should i decided to take things a step further..

Plain and simple…stop looking for chicks to date/be in a relationship w in the strip club….especially if you don’t want someone who u think is always going to be in your pockets…once you walk into that strip club you are potential money. period case closed…when we are working we are about our money and dont have time to be playing around on some im lookin for a girlfriend, i want to do…outside of the club…mess

You want a relatioinship with a stripper that doesn’t revolve around money? catch her where money is not the forefront/her mind is not on money. places like the gas station, grocery store, regular nightclub…then both parties are on a even playing field to see who brings what to the table…

Strippers that dont want to make money…

Sad but true! There are chicks that get up everyday go to the strip club not to make money but to just chit chat and do nothing…at least thats what is seems like lol

case in point-

Several clubs I have worked in I have had my money Jagged not because the guy dont have any money, but because the stripper who is supposed to be there to work…does not want to make money!!OMG! Here’s how my $ gets jagged…

its me a guy and another stripper. the other stripper usually comes into play after i have left and went on stage, i come back and she is still chatting w the person i was with first. since my drink is there and he wants me there i sit back down. so eventually we continue the convo but now add the second stripper into the money equation.. The convo is usually the guy is ready to go for a half hour sometimes a hour with me and would also like to take the other chick as well..Im thinking lets go fucking score! but no not yet…

The other stripper is usually sitting like 2 feet away from the guy, closed off acting scared or not saying much..(im assuming that she thinks ima step off even though i was there first) but to the guy who is ready to go spend money, hes not going to spend money on 1 chick whos ready to go and just give the money to the other stripper who acting all prude or like she dnt know whats going on/being anti social…so i try to not only salvage the sale but also try and do the “she looks shy but shes a real freak in the room” lines…

You would think if the bitch was listening she would come closer, show some interest in the guy who is about to spend on her but nope…mind u also during these senarios the club is dead and this sale would probably be the only mney she makes the whole nite! but nope…she is still silent, anti social, just not interested in making money..so what does the guy do?

leans over to me and suggest we go into the room with another girl/gets bored with the anti social chick…problem is shes still sitting there!!! eventually she has to go on stage which equals more time waiting/leaving him time to change his mind since he does not want to be rude and tell her to step the fuck off( i would but that may be a fight at the end of the night lol) so once she goes on stage we make our move to the chick he really wants and me…. but guess what??

he has to take a piss/offically change his mind on spending at all…so when he comes out the bathroom we now have to remind him what we want to finish and as we are talking all he wants to do is leave/make agreement for another day that he will not be showing up…

and as he leaves there goes my 150/300/500 depending  on the club walking out the fucking door…leaving my blood boiling especially if its now the end of the night…im ready to fucking kill somebody….